Friday, 3 April 2020

DO-IT-AT-HOME CELEBRATION OF THE HOLY WEEK (Holy Tuesday)


The Gospel for this day is taken from John 13:21-33,36-38.

Jesus was with His disciples. He talked about betrayal. In saying that someone from His disciples would betray Him, Jesus conveyed the message to His disciples that He trusted all of them. One cannot be betrayed by someone if he/she did not trust that person. However, the subtitle in the Gospel, Announcement of Judas’s Betrayal, may lead us to stop suspecting that there was another disciple who would betray Jesus. Yet Jesus knew it that both Judas and Peter would betray Him. He announced that someone would betray Him “referring to Judas” (Matthew 26: 24-25, Mark 14: 18-21, Luke 22: 21-23 and John 13: 21-30). He also told Peter that the latter would deny Him three times (Matthew 26: 30-35, Mark 14: 26-31, Luke 22: 31-34 and John 13: 33-38).

It is hard to speak of betrayal when we do not talk about trust. And most trust is built through a promise. As Catholics, we made promises to God and to His Church. During our Baptism, our parents and godparents made promises on our behalf to renounce Satan and believe in God and the Church. During our Confirmation, we ourselves renewed those promises. Take note that the priest/minister used “holy chrism” in the administration of those sacraments. It is also used to anoint a newly ordained priest/bishop. “Holy chrism” is one of the three oils blessed by a bishop during the Chrism Mass on Holy Thursday.

Today, we pray for all the members of the Catholic Church, especially for those who have fully received the sacraments of initiation (Baptism, Confirmation and the Holy Eucharist), that they continue to fulfill what they have promised before God and to the Church. We also pray for the basic unit in the Catholic Church –the Catholic family. As a Catholic family, it is better to pray jointly and solidarily this day. They may reflect on their promises not only those which they made during their baptism and confirmation but which is promised between or among themselves. They may begin asking if they are a Catholic family who eats together and shares each other’s thoughts and feelings while having their meal.

For Catholic husband and wife, they may reflect on their wedding vow; how they keep their marriage sacred. Do they inspire their children to love the way they love?

For Catholic parents, they may reflect on how they fulfill their promise to their child/children. Do they teach them Christian values?

For Catholic children, they may reflect on how they fulfill their promise to their parents and/or grandparents. Do they give them the respect due to them? Do they pray together with their parents and/or grandparents?

For Catholic grandparents, they may pray for their children and grandchildren to grow up to be good Catholics.

If there are broken promises within the Catholic family, it is ok to feel remorse. Judas Iscariot regretted as he said, “I have sinned in betraying innocent blood” (Matthew 27:4). Peter also regretted what he did after the cock crowed because he remembered what Jesus said about his “denial”. He went out and began to weep bitterly (Matthew 26: 75).

However, remorse is not enough. Like Peter, a Catholic has to start living a new life with an inner change of heart, renew his/her promises with a new dedication. He/she is called to return to his/her family/community like Peter and not to kill oneself like Judas. He/she may light a candle before an image of our Lord and ask for His mercy and forgiveness. He/she may also pray for the protection of his/her family.

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